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  • Generally, and I do emphasize that, those who believe that “everyone should just do what they want” really just don’t want their lives to be impacted by change. Which makes sense, since everyone doing what they want only reinforces the power structures that already exist in society.

    Gay men, for example, usually have zero problems blending in as long as they don’t get outed and don’t “look too gay” (straight passing). There’s a good reason why the RNC regularly crashes Grindr servers whenever it’s hosted. And as long they can rail/get railed, then they don’t want to upset the delicate balance of power in which they rail.